Brother in law has a kid

So backstory I love well behaved kids and I enjoy taking of them my brother in law has a kid who is one now and I play with the kid. I love playing with the kid but I started to wonder if I actually wanted to stay child free or is this baby is changing me and is something wrong with me if I don’t want kids myself but like playing with them. But today I realized that although I love looking after him when his father needs me to I still don’t want kids because at the end of the day I can’t hand the kid off to his father and be do my own thing, but I won’t be able to do that with a kid of my own and they will need my constant attention and I’m okay with being the childfree aunt that spoils their nieces and nephews if they are well behaved. I am going to get my tubes removed to ensure that I’ll be the aunt that goes on crazy adventures and comes back with crazy stories.

If anyone has had their tubes removed can you please tell me the process, if you were put under, if you needed a trusted adult to drive you home or could you just order a Lyft and the recovery process after.

Brother in law has a kid