Can’t get a partner and don’t want children. Parents can’t accept it.

My parents keep telling me that they want me to get a partner and have children.
I don’t want children at all, they lead to lack of sleep, money troubles and I don’t like children, I find them very annoying and hate their crying so much.
I am also a gay guy, and my parents want me to specifically get a female partner. They don’t want me to adopt, they want me to continue the family’s genes or legacy, some bullshit like that.
They don’t accept me being gay, when I told them, they took it very badly, they really want me to have my own children.

I really need some mental support, my own parents don’t accept me, and keep trying to make me do something I don’t want.

Can’t get a partner and don’t want children. Parents can’t accept it.