I don’t want kids, but I do like them and want to work with them.

My husband and I just got into a huge argument because he was convinced there was no way I could want to work with kids but not have any of my own. I tried telling him that working with them and being able to help them work through their trauma or go to well adjusted households is extremely different than having the responsibility of one 24/7. I also had trauma as a kid so if I get to help them, it’s kind of like helping past me. Also, if I work with kids all day I sure as shit dont want to deal with one when I get home.
He was being really annoying and just not listening and talking over me and I got so pissed I told him to shut the fuck up and listen to what I’m saying. We have never spoken to each other like that, ever. He immediately apologized and I did too. He told me he just can’t wrap his head around the logic of liking kids but not wanting them.
It’s fine if you don’t understand it, but please don’t talk over me while I’m trying to explain my logic to you.

I don’t want kids, but I do like them and want to work with them.