It’s started to feel like every single man I talk to feels the need to comment on what I want in a man, and I think all they want to do is feel like a victim. Weirdly enough this includes men I have admitted I’m attracted to in the past and was turned down by
They’ll look me in the eye and get angry because I, as an avatar for all women, obviously want someone tall and rich and strong and mean…
So I ask why the frik they think that and they say it’s what every woman on tinder demands. Then they show me a series of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen, super models with high powered jobs that frankly deserve to as picky as thEy want.
Meanwhile the first crush I’ve had in ages is Brennan Lee Mulligan based entirely on the ways he chooses to be silly and express himself and speak of social issues making it obvious he gives a shit about people AND considers women people
And none of these guys are willing to hear that and it’s making me so angry