My anxiety around men is so bad that i keep puttibg myself into positions i dont want to be in

Why is my anxiety so bad around men, ive had 3 guys come onto me i tried to politely refuse date offers but im sure they think its a game.

One guy i used the excuse of hes got a lot going on currently getting divorced so i said i didnt think it would be the best idea to which he came up with an excuse. My chest gets tight because i dont know what to do so i say sure ill send you a message soon…

Another proclaimed that he loves me even though we barley talk in person or on social medi

Having to say no to someone gives me so much anxiety especially with men.

From now on im just going to tell people im seeing someone

My anxiety around men is so bad that i keep puttibg myself into positions i dont want to be in