Patriarchal violence explaining all domestic violence?

I just got banned from r/feminism for asking how the feminist theory of patriarchal violence works in relation to female abusers, especially in a same sex relationship.

Anyone up on their feminist theory want to explain? Is the concept that all violence in society is due to “the patriarchy” even if it’s a woman abusing another woman? If so, what’s the logical argument to get to that point?

EDIT: got banned from r/askfeminists for this too. One person replied essentially disagreeing with the original r/feminists post, so I’m no further forwards in understanding their theory around IPV = patriarchal violence

Patriarchal violence explaining all domestic violence?