Raising teen boys

My eldest nephew is 13, I love him dearly but some of sometimes he comes out with some really toxic stuff that needs to be challenged. I’m interested in resources dealing with this. I want him to be a successful human being in his own right but also don’t want him out there crapping all over others!

We have a good relationship and have had some pretty deep conversations but I suspect I’m not always approaching things on his level. It can be hard not to go full social justice warrior! I want to protect what we have so he always has a level head to turn to. His other aunt is similar to me and his mum and dad do challenge some stuff but don’t recognise that some of what he is saying is parroting his dad.

His parents do keep a handle on his web exposure and if anything he was always sheltered for his age but obviously he’s at the age where outside influences are less controlled

Raising teen boys