Was anyone here born to loser parents and that’s a reason you don’t want kids of your own?

My parent’s were 27 and 30 when they had me and while they claimed it was planned I don’t really think it was. Neither one at the time had a job or a college education or skill. My father was and still is a complete deadbeat who was never really in my life and still has never had a job. My mom struggled to support me growing up on a retail job and while growing up I always felt inferior to other kids in school who had normal families with siblings and money. I just couldn’t compete with them and felt out of place a lot growing up.

I’m 26 now and not too bad off anymore and I don’t hate my mom but I think she made a lot of mistakes. This is a reason I want to remain CF because I don’t think I could be a good father nor know how to raise a child. I’d feel bad bringing them into a world where I couldn’t provide much to them and they’d be ostracized growing up

Was anyone here born to loser parents and that’s a reason you don’t want kids of your own?